Never Underestimate Mothers 2012
06 May 2012 Leave a Comment
in 2012, love relationships, mother book Tags: confidence, how you were formed, mother love, mothers
Never Underestimate Mothers
“You have such pretty ears!”
“You’ve such a pretty nose!”
Phrases stick –
They pop up now and then
To reinforce a confidence
You didn’t know was present.
You had problems, your neuroses,
Yet two things you never had to think about
Were
Ear
And nose;
Hurdles you would never need to
Struggle over,
Scuffle through.
So if your mommy gave you
Any words of praise,
That phrase has tooled you
For the good.
Never Underestimate Mothers 4.13.2012
Mother Book; Love Relationships;
Arlene Corwin
Secret For My Children 2011
07 Jun 2011 Leave a Comment
in 2011, love relationships, mother book
Secret For My Children
We want them to know we love them.
But mommies have secrets
That get in the way – may
Get in the way of their knowing
Our loving.
My secrets:
I don’t like to chat on the phone,
Need to visit. I can’t give advice
(I’m just harmlessly nice)
Knowing that I don’t know.
I love them to pieces,
Admire their choices
And destinies.
Private by nature
(not seeking out groups)
My secret is this:
Not visits, advising, discussing or asking;
Not peering and listening, buying and basking
In sunrays of family,
Skyping or phoning –
But loving, just loving
While being alone.
I know that you know.
I just want you to know.
Secret For My Children 6.7.2011
Mother Book; Love Relationships;
Arlene Corwin
Linnea Is Dying 2010
08 Aug 2010 Leave a Comment
in 2010, birth death & in between, circling round time, mother book, Uncategorized
Linnea Is Dying Noon June 29,2007
Linnea is dying.
We will honor her
By penning on the hands of Time.
A morphined sleep,
The morphined comfort a reward
In tumored head,
God leading.
We will honor her with poetry –
The written word
A record
For Eternity.
Memories and memory to honor her,
This excellent mother;
Before name is on that stone,
A paper honor of her own.
We must honor even it,
The quiet sleep away from life.
Perhaps she goes to heaven’s secrets;
Maybe to return.
Higher than all sentiment,
Than tears;
Word’s love expression.
Dying -
Never dead.
Linnea Is Dying 07.6.07 Birth, Death & In Between; Circling Round Time; Mother Book; Arlene Corwin
The Womb 1956
18 Nov 2009 Leave a Comment
in 1956, circling round nature, circling round woman, love relationships, mother book, pure nakedness
The Womb
The womb is a flower
Whose folded petals hide
The precious pollen
Till morning comes,
Cajoling.
©The Womb 56.7.25
Circling Round Nature; Circling Round Woman; Love Relationships; Pure Nakedness; Mother Book;
Arlene Corwin
New Gratitude 2008
28 Mar 2009 Leave a Comment
in 2008, mother book, pure nakedness Tags: 2008, gratitude, mother love
New Gratitude
New gratitude.
Renewed,
A gratitude
To mommy
Who gave me
The harp when she
Could hardly pay the lessons –
Just because I’d asked.
Who gave me lessons in piano,
Sent me to the H.E.S.*
Believed in me
On some unconscious level.
Faults as parent,
Flaws as person,
Ignorance et al,
She loved me.
And that’s all.
I knew it always.
Even when she failed,
I knew it.
And that’s everything.
*Hebrew Educational Society; an organization set up for Jewish children to
study music tuition-free.
© New Gratitude 8.3.2008
Mother Book; Pure Nakedness;
Arlene Corwin
Bath Contemplation 2009
26 Mar 2009 Leave a Comment
in 2009, circling round baths, love relationships, mother book Tags: 2009, baths, mothers, reconsidering, things to contemplate
I was thinking,
“I have written mean and angry things
About my mother.” I had reasons.
Yet, here in the bath,
Re-working wrath
(One of the seven sins)
I find a word: communication.
Buddha, Jesus, Ramakrishna
Might have found a way. I didn’t.
Is it readiness, mine, hers?
Receptiveness, hers, mine –
And not about a way at all?
When simile has failed,
Would seers, like the ones above,
Not say a word, sit silent, smile
Or walk away?
Communication may not be
The A
And Z
At all.
Circling Round Baths; Mother Book; Love Relationships;
Arlene Corwin
I’m Such A Fool 2008
07 Mar 2009 Leave a Comment
in 2008, birth death & in between, circling round nature, circling round wrinkles, mother book Tags: 2008, aging, changes, daughters, mothers, wrinkles
I’m Such A Fool
Foiled by aging, changing:
Wrinkling arm or cheek or thigh,
Cholesterol, a kidney stone:
Visible, measurable.
The product of my womb, her own
Pre-diabetic high cholesterol,
And also floored.
With that, I am no longer shocked,
No longer feel mocked by law.
I understand more.
© I’m Such A Fool 12.15.2008
Circling Round Wrinkles; Circling Round Nature;
Mother Book; Circling Round Woman; Birth, Death & In Between;
Arlene Corwin
I’m Such A Fool 2008
07 Mar 2009 Leave a Comment
in 2008, birth death & in between, circling round nature, circling round woman, circling round wrinkles, mother book Tags: 2008, aging, daughters, health, inevitability, mothers, nature, wrinkles
I’m Such A Fool
Foiled by aging, changing:
Wrinkling arm or cheek or thigh,
Cholesterol, a kidney stone:
Visible, measurable.
The product of my womb is now
Pre-diabetic, high cholesterol
And also floored.
With that, I am no longer shocked,
No longer feel mocked by law.
I understand more.
© I’m Such A Fool 12.15.2008
Circling Round Wrinkles; Circling Round Nature;
Mother Book; Circling Round Woman; Birth, Death & In Between;
Arlene Corwin
Daughters & Sons #3 1998
13 Jan 2009 Leave a Comment
in 1998, circling round woman, love relationships, mother book, pure nakedness Tags: 1998, circling round woman, love relationships, mother book, pure nakedness
Daughters & Sons
I’m so sad for the mother
That never became what she ought as a woman:
A person to gladden.
Never became what you faintly could call
Happy creature, the features
Of happiness missing in full.
So sad,
And I don’t fully tumble to layered grief why.
Is it that she will die,
Her future a flyby
Without any chance on this planet for joy?
That some of her blood runs inside of my veins,
And gene-derived thoughts in my brain
Are connected to some of her pains?
Of all the denatured, the tortured
I feel a sadness directed at one.
Is it guilt?
Is there something I just haven’t done?
How much mother’s keeper
Are daughters and sons?
I’m so sad.
©Daughters & Sons 98.1.1
Circling Round Woman; Love Relationships; Pure Nakedness; Mother Book;
Arlene Corwin